One of the more defining dynamics that can cause the Death of Love is what's called the shame-rage cycle. One partner shames the other by way of critical, abusive remarks and the other responds with defensive rage in an attempt to protect herself or himself from verbal or emotional assault. Once this point-counterpoint cycle begins, one or both partners are likely to resort to some kind of … [Read more...]
Learning the language of emotion
Even in the best of times, sharing feelings with others is not an easy task for people of either sex -- but it's necessary in the world of relationships. The expression of emotions presents a complicated set of experiences for men and women alike. On the one hand we are led to believe that it's easier for women to be vulnerable and express their emotions, and harder for men. On face … [Read more...]