In disputes within a relationship, it is important that the couple sees, hears, and values each other's position equally. In the moment that one person's position becomes more important than the other's, a power game ensues. This dynamic is the enemy of intimacy and resolution. But when both parties value themselves highly enough, then power struggles can transform into tremendous growth … [Read more...]
Archives for October 2008
Don’ts that don’t make relationships work
Relationships these days are ending all too soon, with one in two marriages collapsing into divorce. Fewer people are getting married, and the lives of so many beautiful, wonderful individuals are filled with heartache and sorrow. Communication is the key to a successful relationship, we're all told. But how do we communicate at stressful times, without making a tense situation worse? Here … [Read more...]