Andy Warhol made his career in part insisting that we all will achieve 15 minutes of fame at some moment in our lives. What did he mean by this? Is this true? Certainly society promotes the premise and thrives on it. The entertainment media has tapped into a wellspring of psychological and emotional needs. Reality TV shows take us deep into jungles, where casts of everyday people try to … [Read more...]
Failure: The downside … and the upside
I remember watching with fascination and dread the ice skating championships at the Olympics at Sochi in 2014. Some of the most artistic, disciplined, skilled and graceful performers in the world took to the icy rink with bold courage. Taking enormous risks, they spun and twirled with big smiles and great passion -- speeding around the rink to loud music, from classical to rock to blues. I … [Read more...]
A woman’s place is in the home office
Women at the turn of the century had won the vote, and then in the mid-1940s World War II was over and the nation was victorious. Slowly but surely, women began to spread their wings, enjoying newfound confidence as they entered the workplace. Possibilities for a better life were everywhere. While the stigma of the "little woman" homemaker remained embedded in the hearts and minds of some … [Read more...]
Let your inner voice pay you a compliment
Give yourself some credit for a change. So much of the time we are so focused on taking care of the people we love, our children, our animals and other things in our lives that we forget to take a moment and give ourselves some credit for all that we do and all that we are. So often it's almost a habit to distract from ourselves when another person pays us a compliment -- almost as if we … [Read more...]