While psychology -- in particular psychoanalysis -- so frequently focuses on early childhood experiences, it's surprising to find that relatively little has been written on the subject of siblings. Lately, however, researchers have found that in many ways one's siblings have a great impact on a person -- in childhood, of course, but also on the direction of later life. How that person views … [Read more...]
Hearing the voice of the Child in the election uproar
The presidential election proved equally historic and traumatic for millions of Americans. A wide range of affect states, from outrage to joy, are being exhibited across the nation. Tempers flaring. Feelings of rage, shame, pain, helpless loss and devastation. Yet for others, the election results brought happiness; sighs of relief and resolution. This political chasm brings concerns … [Read more...]
Ganging up on bullies
Bullying comes in all sorts of shapes, sizes and guises. There is no universal experience for its targets. At its core, bullying produces in victims some of the most debilitating and isolating of feelings. Those who suffer persistent bullying know profound feelings of low self-worth and self-doubt -- and often terror. In school, this abuse often leads students to withdraw and underachieve. … [Read more...]
15 minutes of fame — do we really need it?
Andy Warhol made his career in part insisting that we all will achieve 15 minutes of fame at some moment in our lives. What did he mean by this? Is this true? Certainly society promotes the premise and thrives on it. The entertainment media has tapped into a wellspring of psychological and emotional needs. Reality TV shows take us deep into jungles, where casts of everyday people try to … [Read more...]
Resentment: It’s a grind
We're in an age in which anger seems a dominant emotion. Resentments can linger for a lifetime. Those grinding and gnawing feelings associated with resentment never seem to resolve themselves. Let's do some "unpacking" and take a closer look at some of our resentments. Starting with a few key questions: 1. How much is your worth being defined by the other person who is causing distress? … [Read more...]
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